Chance The Rapper rises to a new level with his mixtape: "Coloring Book"

“I speak of wondrous unfamiliar lessons from childhood / Make you remember how to smile good / I’m pre-currency, post-language, anti-label / Pro-famous, I’m Broadway Joe Namath / Kanye’s best prodigy / He ain’t signed me but he proud of me / I got some ideas that you gotta see”

— Blessings (Reprise)

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The one and only time I’ve seen Chance The Rapper perform was a complete surprise. It was at the halftime intermission of the Louder Than A Bomb poetry event in downtown Chicago, blocks away from where Chancelor “Chance” Bennett attended Jones College Prep high school. There was only time for three songs, but that was all that was needed to become entrenched as a fan.   

Louder Than A Bomb (LTAB) is the largest youth slam poetry event in the world, attracting individuals and teams of poets from all corners of Chicago. High schoolers walk onstage at a sold-out theater every March and discuss the deepest, darkest and most powerful emotions that the city and country can produce in a teenager. The diverse crowd hangs on every thought provoking verse; standing ovations for the poets are the norm rather than the exception.

Surprisingly, Chance doesn’t have any LTAB hardware to his name, but he still found his way on the main stage as a 21-year-old adult. Equipped with his signature smile, the beaming ball of energy delighted the youthful poetry fans at the Arie Crown Theater when he revealed himself as the night’s special guest. Chicagoans reacted swiftly, flooding the aisles with their phones ready to record, jockeying for the best position to see their youthful city hero drop some poetic lines of his own. Not surprisingly, the high school contestants didn't seem to mind him stealing the show.

True to form, Chance mixed energy, positivity, and fun/catchy lyrics to give the crowd something meaningful to latch onto. With various areas of Chicago beleaguered by guns, drugs and the like, Chance seemed to know full well that his city needed his positive vibes, and he was there to provide.

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(photo by Dave Kotinsky)

(photo by Dave Kotinsky)

Chance The Rapper released his third mixtape on Friday, May 13, titled Coloring Book. The working title of the 14 song mixtape wasChance 3 (hence the album cover), but in the 11th hour, his fans were presented with a coloring book instead, and a lovely one at that.

Highly regarded by the hip-hop community and beyond, Coloring Book already seems to be accepted as a classic. Drake, Kanye and Kendrick have all gotten their just do as of late, and rightfully so, but with Coloring Book, Chance seems to have a place at the table as well when you speak about modern hip-hop artists. Industry titans Kanye West, Lil Wayne, Justin Bieber, Future, and Jay Electronica all cut out time to rap with Chance on this mixtape, not to mention the Chicago’s Children Choir (see the lead-off song “All We Got”).

Pretty impressive stuff, when you consider Chance is still just a 23-year-old who doesn’t have a record deal and who lets his music play for free on the internet. His distinctive voice can be found on various other records across the industry as well, including Kanye’s February Life of Pablo album. His ability to seamlessly collaborate with so many other artists has, and will continue to pay off nicely for him and his fans.

Coloring Book comes on the heels of Chance’s first two mixtapes, his debut, 10 Day, was released back in 2012 while Acid Rap came a year later in 2013. The inspiration for 10 Day grew out of a 10-day suspension that “Little Chano” received for marijuana possession during his senior year at Jones College Prep (a selective enrollment Chicago Public School located downtown). As legend has it, Chance’s time off from school proved productive as it gave him time to create 10 Day, effectively putting his musical career in motion. Songs like “Nostalgia” and “Brain Cells” have a melancholy way of drawing you in and keeping you there; all the while interested in what the 19-year-old has to say about the world around him.

Acid Rap was the mixtape that took Chance to the mainstream. Song after song of raw talent and energy that makes it hard not to keep listening. "Paranoia," “Pusha Man,” “Acid Rain,” “Smoke Again,” and “Everybody’s Something” were just some of the songs that made a huge impression. Despite it being free, it still rose to no. 63 on Billboard’s Top R&B/Hip-Hop Albums chart after being sold by unauthorized retailers and the like.

Coloring Book, at least after a weekend of listening, seems to be Chance’s best effort to date. The mixtape starts off with “All We Got,” featuring a thrilling intro that gets one locked in to listen to an hour of Chance drop bars. “And we back, and we back, and we back,” proclaims Chance. “This ain’t no intro, this the entree,” he assures us. Chance raps about his girlfriend (the mother of his first child) as well as other topics. He also let’s Chicago’s finest, Kanye West do his thing, not to mention the Chicago Children’s Choir. Overall, it’s a great way to draw one into a mixtape.

On the second track, “No Problem,” Chance welcomes Lil Wayne and 2 Chainz into the fold, and neither disappoint. It’s the type of song that makes you want to blast it as loud as possible on the freeway with the windows down, not a care in the world. The song makes reference to the record labels that Chance has kept at a distance. “Countin’ Benji’s while we meetin’, make ‘em shake my other hand,” he shouts. As expected, Lil Wayne’s appearance is a head-turner. “Half a milli’ in the safe, another in the pillowcase, codeine got me movin’ slower than a caterpillar race,” explains Wayne.

“Summer Friends” is the third song, and has a sound that reminds me of a Bon Iver ballad. Chance describes his life growing up on 79th street on the south side of Chicago. He paints the picture of a more innocent time in the city, with less guns and stronger family ties. “79th street was America then / Ice cream truck and the beauty supply / Blockbuster movies and Harold’s again / We still catching lightning bugs when the plague hit the backyard.”  

Coloring Book's seventh song, titled “Mix Tape” has the most catchy beat on the compilation. “Am I the only nigga still care about mixtapes?” asks Chance alongside Atlanta’s Young Thug. The defiant lyrics, once again challenging the setup of the current music industry, will keep your head bobbing throughout.

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Buy this art print by Tyler Powers here

“Mix Tape” gives way to what will surely be the single of Chance’s third release. “Angels” comes at you with an incredibly catchy, fast-moving beat, with lyrics that keep you engaged throughout. Chance speaks about the city that he’s from and what it means to him. “I got a city doing front flips / When every father, mayor, rapper jump ship / I guess that’s why they call it where I stay / Clean up the streets, so my daughter can have somewhere to play,” he demands. It is interesting to hear Chance mention the Mayor’s office here. Mayor Rahm Emanuel (Obama’s former right hand man) has recently fired Chicago’s police chief over the Laquan McDonald tragedy. Moreover, Chance’s father Ken currently serves as Mayor Emanuel’s chief of staff.

“Smoke Break,” the mixtape’s 12th song, features perhaps the hottest rapper on the market, Future. The sound on this track is immaculate if you ask me, even if I am a bit biased. Fellow UC Berkeley grad Garren Langford produced the song while he was simultaneously finishing his senior year as a Golden Bear.

The 14th and final song is Blessings (reprise). Blessings is also the fifth track, but the reprise is something else. The song is beautiful on many levels, from the sound, to the rhythm, to the lyrics. Chance paints the following picture in the opening verse, “I speak of promised lands / Soil as soft as momma’s hands / Running water, standing still / Endless fields of daffodils and chamomile.” Chance continues on, recounting his rise to stardom and his passion for his craft. “I used to dance to Michael, I used to dance in high school / I used to pass out music, I still pass out music / The people’s champ must be everything the people can’t be.” Finally, Chance finishes his best work yet with the following questions, “Are you ready for your blessings? Are you ready for your miracle?”

In a mixtape lasting less than an hour, Chance The Rapper has put out a piece of art that will be appreciated for quite sometime, both by his home city of Chicago and hip-hop fans from coast to coast. Chance has arrived as a major player in the rap game and with his youthful energy and obvious talent, it looks like he’s here to stay. On Sunday, August 7th, San Francisco will host him in Golden Gate Park. The Bay Area will be hanging on his every word.

A Definitive Ranking of Comic Book Movies Released This Decade

By Daniel Fox | @DanielFox85

In case you haven’t noticed, we currently live in a cinematic world that is completely saturated with Comic Book/Superhero films.  From the years 2000 to 2009 there were 30 movies adapted from existing comic books.  With the release of Captain America: Civil War, 30 more comic book films have arrived since 2010, thus matching the entire total of films from the previous decade in just over half the time.  Meanwhile there are another 18 currently in the studio pipeline scheduled to be released before the end of 2019.  For those who struggle with math, that’s a whopping 48 comic book films scheduled for this decade, against 30 films made in the 2000’s.  Even if you want to go back to the 1990’s, there were only 19 comic book films made in that entire decade.  So in the span of 3 decades we’ve gone from an average of two comic book films a year in the 90’s, to three a year in the 2000’s, to now an average of five comic book films a year in the present decade.

It’s no secret why this is the case.  Money.  Comic book movies absolutely dominate the box office both in the United States, and especially internationally (looking at you China).  In fact, 7 out of the top 10 highest grossing domestic box office opening weekends in history belong to comic book films, and all but one of those films (The Dark Knight) have come in this current decade (side note, while looking that statistic up I saw that three Twilight films are in the top 20, I then proceeded to die a little inside). 

I live in Honduras, a third-world country, and in my city of La Ceiba we have a really awesome two-screen movie theater (insert sarcastic tone here).  However, we do get a majority of the mainstream films that are released in the states, just on different timelines.  But the power of comic book films is completely evident here.  In December I went to a second night showing of Star Wars VII, I was so paranoid about not getting tickets that I made my wife leave about 45 minutes early, but there was barely anybody there with the theater maybe 20% full.  When I went to see Batman v. Superman about a month ago the line was out the door, every seat sold out.  Two weeks ago for Civil War it took me going to the theater on three separate occasions before I finally arrived early enough to get a ticket to a show time.

So many comic book films are being put out there, I was curious if the quantity was somewhat diluting the quality of the films being released.  What I saw when I went through all the films was a definite tier system.  Overall, there are not too many films that are flat out horrible (although they certainly exist), and also not too many films that were 5 star quality.  Most films did tend to stay in that 3 or 4 star range, enjoyable but not a film that could define the genre.  So because I have an obsession with ranking things, I decided to try to put these 30 films into some type of class system.  Without further ado, here is my ranking of the existing 30 comic book movies of this decade.

**To clarify these are films based on existing comics or graphic novels, therefore a film like Chronicle that is an original work but isn’t based on an existing source material is not included in this list... sorry if you’re a big Chronicle fan, maybe send a support letter to Josh Trank, I’m sure he could use one right about now**

Photo Credit: DC Comics

Photo Credit: DC Comics

The “Batman Nipple-Suit” Division

30.   Jonah Hex (2010)

29.   The Green Hornet (2011)

28.   Ghost Rider: Spirit of Vengeance (2012)

27.   Fantastic Four (2015)

26.   Green Lantern (2011)

25.   Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (2014)

Ok, small confession.  I have only seen a couple movies in this division, so I guess Jonah Hex could theoretically be the greatest movie ever made, but common sense is telling me… no.  Also, I don’t think it’s a coincidence that Megan Fox is in two of these films.  Do you think Seth Rogen took a really bad bong hit before he signed on for Green Hornet, also how did they convince an Oscar winner in Christoph Waltz to sign on for that film? Was there blackmail involved?  Also telling that two of these films (The Green Hornet, Green Lantern) were openly ridiculed by their stars in later films (This is the End, Deadpool).  Without a doubt though the biggest disaster is Josh Trank’s Fantastic Four.  Trank was coming fresh off Chronicle and managed to get Miles Teller and Michael B. Jordan on board for a film that would all but erase the memory of the horrible two films that preceded it.  Rumor was all Trank had to do was nail this film and that Disney had him hand-picked for a Star Wars centered movie.  What he proceeded to do was blow his entire career by completely mismanaging his budget and crew, fighting on set with his cast, and ordering reshoots three months prior to release.  To top it off Trank racked up $100,000 in damages at his rented house in New Orleans due to letting his small pet dogs destroy everything in sight, and yes that actually happened.

 

The “Emo-Dancing Peter Parker” Division

24.   Kick-Ass 2 (2013)

23.   Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)

22.   Iron Man 2 (2010)

21.   Thor: The Dark World (2013)

20.   Thor (2011)

19.   Iron Man 3 (2013)

18.   Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice (2016)

Have you ever walked out of a movie and when asked your thoughts by a friend your response is, “it was ok.”  That pretty much defines these films.  I can barely remember anything about these, so in order here’s the only things I remember about this division; Jim Carrey’s horrible accent, Tommy Lee Jones, Mickey Rourke using The Wrestler to get a nice paycheck and Terrence Howard getting the shaft, something about elves, Natalie Portman in the desert, me being so completely ticked off about the Mandarin twist that I completely shut down, and that I was shocked a Ben Affleck version of the Batman actually carried the entire movie.

 

The “Too Soon” Division

17.   The Amazing Spider-Man (2012)

16.   The Amazing Spider-Man 2 (2014)

Ok, I’m a notorious defender of these two movies, while a majority of the public is… not so much.  I really think Andrew Garfield and Emma Stone blew away Tobey Maguire and Kirsten Dunst, almost to the point where I wish the original Spider-Man trilogy (ok maybe leave out the third) would’ve been held off for those two actors.  There were two main problems to this series, first of all as the division title suggests they came way too soon, only 5 years after Spider-Man 3.  The mistake was going through the entire origin story again, something that Marvel definitely picked up on and is using for the upcoming Spider-Man: Homecoming, but Sony had to do something in order to keep the rights so I understand from a business perspective why they did it.  The second problem was the villains, if you’re going to be a great comic book movie then the villain has to be a great as well.  As much as every scene with Garfield and Stone was great, every scene with Rhys Ifans, Jamie Foxx, and Dane DeHaan was just terrible.

Photo Credit: DC Comics

Photo Credit: DC Comics

The “Catch it on Cable” Division

15.   Man of Steel (2013)

14.   Ant-Man (2015)

13.   The Wolverine (2013)

12.   Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015)

All of these movies, I feel, are above average but not great.  I never really understood the bad reputation Man of Steel received, I really enjoyed it, and it is lightyears better than Batman v. SupermanAnt-Man was a solid low-budget, low risk/high reward film, and I really enjoyed Paul Rudd in the role, but I would’ve loved to see Edgar Wright’s version.  The Wolverine was a really enjoyable film that had a solid character arc for Hugh Jackman’s Logan.  The second Avengers couldn’t live up to the hype and is probably somewhat better than what I give it credit for, I just remember expecting something in line with the first film and being letdown.

 

The “Go Ahead and Add it to the Blu-ray Collection” Division

11.   Deadpool (2016)

10.   X-Men: Days of Future Past (2014)

9.       Kick-Ass (2010)

8.       X-Men: First Class (2011)

7.       Captain America: Civil War (2016)

6.       Big Hero 6 (2014)

The thing I find in common with all of these films that sets them apart is that they are in their own ways all really original comic book films.  Things that haven’t necessarily been done before in previous comic book movies.  This trait made these films stand out, and while they weren’t necessarily the cream of the crop, they are definitely on the marquee of the best films so far this decade.  Deadpool is the first Marvel film to go for the hard R rating and succeed.  Days of Future Past was the first film that really brought together two film franchises from the same comic into one movie, in bringing the 2000’s X-Men into the same world as X-Men: First Class.  I don’t think Deadpool would’ve been made if Kick-Ass wasn’t such a hit.  This is the first R-rated comic book film that I remember being successful, and the Big Daddy rescue scene is still one of my favorite comic book film scenes of all-time.  Hey Matthew Vaughn, good for you going back-to-back on this list with First Class coming up next, original in that it was the first X-Men origin story.  Civil War was great and was the first film to have friends turn into foes.  Big Hero 6 - excuse me, Academy Award winning Big Hero 6 - proved that almost a decade after The Incredibles there is a market for a good animated comic book or super hero film.

Photo Credit: Marvel Studios

Photo Credit: Marvel Studios

The “Amazing, but still not quite as good as The Dark Knight” Division

5.       The Avengers (2012)

4.       The Dark Knight Rises (2012)

3.       Guardians of the Galaxy (2014)

2.       Dredd (2012)

1.       Captain America: The Winter Soldier (2014)

All of these are excellent films, not just comic book movies, but great films that would rank up there with any other dramatic or comedic work as a challenger in my top ten films of the year list.  To be clear, none of these are at the level of The Dark Knight, which remains the high-water mark of comic book movies to aim towards.  These all miss the mark for that level of greatness, but they all are great successes in filmmaking.  Not many films can say they were the climax that all other films were being built towards over a five year period, but that’s what The Avengers was at that point.  It doesn’t seem so radical now that it’s so commonplace, but the idea to make five different stand-alone films focusing on characters that would come together for a movie with a massive scope was a very radical notion at the time.  When it was planned in the late 2000’s, people were not sure if it was going to work, but credit to Marvel and Joss Whedon for putting together a film that has a perfect blend of character development, action, and comedy.  The Dark Knight Rises doesn’t get the recognition it deserves mainly because people expected it to be The Dark Knight.  You can’t expect a pitcher to go out and throw back-to-back perfect games.  The film is what it is, a fitting end to Christopher Nolan’s trilogy, and the more I’ve watched it over the years, the more I’ve appreciated the film.  Guardians of the Galaxy had absolutely no reason to be successful, a very obscure comic that probably 99.9% of the population had never even heard of five years ago complete with a talking raccoon.  But its originality, humor, and star Chris Pratt absolutely made this one of the best comic book films of all-time.  If there’s one film in the hierarchy of this list that I’m guessing most people haven’t seen it’s probably Dredd, and if you are one of those people you need to see this film ASAP.  Vaguely modeled after a 2011 Indonesian film, The Raid (check that film out as well) it is probably the best pure action film on this list.  This is nothing like the horrible mid-90’s Stallone vehicle Judge Dredd.  Credit to star Karl Urban for never taking off his trademark helmet throughout the entire film, and writer Alex Garland (Ex Machina) for a fast paced, intelligent, action packed film.  My number one of this decade, Captain America: The Winter Soldier, successfully transformed a comic book movie into a political thriller.  The number of relevant, and thought provoking questions about the role of government this film asks in between great action set pieces make it stand apart at the top of the list.

So there’s the list, it’s only my opinion and is totally subjective, which is why going to the movies is so much fun.  What does the rest of this decade have in store?  I’m not sure what the quality is going to be, but I’m sure that I’ll be standing in line opening night making a bunch of studio executives very happy.

Family Matters: A Review of Netflix’s Bloodline

By Donna Arp Weitzman | @DonnaAWeitzman | http://donnaarpweitzman.com/

We find ourselves in the middle of the “peak TV” era, with fantastic show upon fantastic show available to us via several platforms; from your traditional cable box to streaming services, the best of today’s television series are the press of a button away.  Accomplished author, columnist, businesswoman and civic leader Donna Arp Weitzman offers her take on a Netflix series that has her attention…

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Photo Credit: Netflix

Netflix continually features great shows and Bloodline is one of my favorites.  The theme of complete and utter family dysfunction is displayed with every scene, while snippets of darker family secrets tantalize your psyche.

Sissy Spacek plays Sally Rayburn, the all-knowing yet desperately loving mother and matriarch.  She is painfully aware of her children's dark sides, but forges on with a half-hearted smile and determination to believe the positive.

Her eldest, Danny, the prodigal son, is played by Ben Mendelsohn.  Danny's sinister soul sent chills up my spine.  He begged to be hated, yet somehow wormed his way into making his siblings feel responsible and guilty if they didn't succumb to his mean-spirited demands.

John (Kyle Chandler), second son in line, is beset with guilt for reasons unknown to the viewer, although occasional flashes of his life while a boy pairs him with action scenes with brother, Danny. You know there is some deed lurking in the past that has incessantly haunted him.  His innards want to hate and despise Danny, but his innate sense of a do-gooder pleads him into forgiveness for Danny at every turn.

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Photo Credit: Netflix

Meg, played by Linda Cardellini, is the bright lawyer in the family.  In my opinion, she is the weakest character, always thrusting herself into situations and throwing her legal knowledge into any mix. Bloodline seems to typecast Meg as a strong, bright woman purposefully just to appease us girls!

The fourth and most unpredictable sibling is the man-child, Kevin.  Norbert Leo Butz plays the hot-headed, unforgiving baby of the family.  His every sentence insults Danny, albeit rightly so.
With total disdain for his oldest brother, Kevin has a minor role for the first season.

Dad, expertly played by Sam Shepard, dies in the first season.  His demise opens the flood gates to a void in the family.  Danny, who openly berated his father and played up to Mom, decides to move in with Mom upon his father’s burial.  It is obvious Danny plans to get more than a share of the family business heretofore run by Mom and Dad.  Mom seems happy to have a male shoulder to help run the Floridian beachside inn, Rayburn House, as it requires a strong handyman much of the time.

The show uses the tag line “we’re not bad people, but we did a bad thing” and I look forward to uncovering more family secrets when the series returns for season two.

Bloodline is a critically acclaimed and award nominated drama and Netflix Original Series. The much-anticipated second season premiered May 27th and was released in its entirety. Prepare to binge.

The Ten Quintessential Pop Songs of the 90s

By Tyler Foster & Collin Lotter

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Credit to Getty Images

Very few decades brought us a musical clash of styles centered on a paradigm shift from the central nervous system of music videos and MTV. It was truly a unique time in music history with a revolt against the glamour and colorful rock of the 1980’s to a more edgy and grungy vibe in the early part of the decade. Then we saw the emergence of the boy band faze which all became immediately polarizing to all consumers. However by 1997/ 1998 the forged alliance between the boy bands and the Mickey Mouse Club pop stars such as Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera, combined with the daily vehicle of Total Request Live with Carson Daly, became too formidable to deny. No matter how much we wanted to hate it, we all eventually joined in on the fun. The 90’s brought us some hilariously bad POP songs that made us want to cringe when KISS FM would play them, but before you knew it everyone was singing along in the car. But for this article, there can be only ten quintessential POP songs that were memorable - whether we wanted to remember them or not.

1)  Seal  - Kiss From a Rose

Partially because the 90s were a magical time when Batman movies had yet to meet the grit of Christian Bale, Heath Ledger, and Christopher Nolan; and partially because my friend once asked me if I thought that Seal serenaded Heidi Klum with this song every day they were married and I have not been able to get that image out of my head ever since. However everyone was mesmerized by this song and this newcomer Seal.

2)  Christina Aguilera -  Genie in a Bottle

Granted this was perceived as the second fiddle to Britney’s “Hit me Baby One More Time,” which we will dive into later, but make no mistake, Christina’s first pop hit was catchy as all get out and made her a star overnight. This song was played on TRL constantly and grew into the ultimate sing – a – long for all of us… just admit it.

3)  Haddaway – What is Love

This song was mainly under the radar until the “Roxbury Guys” from Saturday Night Live gave it a second life and made the head bobbing motion the official dance of this mid 90’s catchy tune. Every time its still played, people love to immediately sing and dance to it in the same vein that Will Ferrell and Chris Kattan did so amusingly back in the day. 

4)  Backstreet Boys – Everybody (Backstreet’s Back)

It’s easy to think of NSYNC before the Backstreet Boys, but the truth is BB exploded on the scene just before Justin and his boys; and this song was a major reason why. Still played all the time on Sirius XM and a major sing-a-long catchy tune vibe. This song paved the way for the boy band renaissance in the 90’s referenced earlier.

5)  Britney Spears – (Hit Me) …Baby One More Time

Arguably the anthem of the 1990’s pop scene and Britney can be concluded as the pop icon from this genre and era. Baby One More Time introduced us to Ms. Spears, which led to more introductions from Justin and Christina... The Mickey Mouse Club had more influence than the Clintons in the White House by mid 1998. This song was a main stay on MTV and pop radio stations and was the first of many essential pop songs from the teen girl idol.

6)  Aqua – Barbie Girl

You didn't think we would leave out “Barbie Girl” as well did you! What an unforgettably bad yet awesome song made in the mid 1990’s. This song was so unique and popular, yet people tried to distance so hard from it. But just admit it, we loved everything about it. Middle Schools used it for a fun soundtrack to laugh about during a short six-month span. Thank you for the memories Aqua, we only knew you so long, wish it was longer. On a different thought, we are all genuinely surprised Katy Perry hasn't attempted a semi satirical cover of this song, but the opportunity remains.

7)  NSYNC – Tearin’ Up My Heart

Granted NSYNC didn't hit their stride and ultimate victory in the Boy Band race until the early 2000’s, but they still made some great/bad pop songs we all loved to sing and dance to as youngsters in the 90’s. Tearin’ Up My Heart was a perfect example of a poster song for the 10 – 15 year old girl’s gold standard of a pop ballad that they were craving. Backstreet Boys thought they had the stage all to themselves… who were they kidding, NSYNC was here to stay. 

8)  Destiny’s Child – Say My Name

The Beyonce we all know and love in today’s world is not what we were first exposed to back in the day. If you can’t remember she actually had a group around her and they were pretty popular. That's right Destiny’s Child was definitely a big time group with songs like “Say My Name” and “Bills, Bills, Bills,” and don't lie, we all loved singing to them, even if the videos for these songs were ultra cheese ball. The game completely changed in the early 2000’s when Beyonce and friends did a song called “Survivor” that was basically a fierce reminder of their strength which is still a constant today with her themes. But for this article we choose to remember the colorful, fun, lighthearted Beyonce and Destiny’s Child.

9)  98 Degrees -  Because of You

It’s ok Nick Lachey not everyone can finish with a gold or silver medal. Every medal ceremony has to have a bronze winner and that's exactly what 98 Degrees was in the boy band competition. Did they have some big hits like this one that were played ad nauseam except to teeny boppers? Absolutely, especially this song, but at the end of the day they never moved the needle like BB and NSYNC.  Nick tried though... he would decide to join powers with another big pop star who didn't make this cut, Mrs. Jessica Simpson, to cloud our headspace after 98 degrees ran out of steam, but together they had a failed marriage and a failed reality show that couldn't produce the heat. 

10)  Lou Bega -  Mambo No. 5

For the surprise entrant on this list, that's right I have to get in a personal favorite with Mambo No.5 . This song was so catchy and still resonates every time it’s played randomly on your local pop radio station. This song was so fun, played at every middle school dance, every TRL episode, and any type of social engagement throughout 1999. Looking back this song should’ve catapulted Lou into big time music superstardom but it just didn't happen. Most likely the reason being his second single was basically the same song again just with different words. I must say a pretty disappointing follow up for this one trick pony.

So there you have it, these pop songs paved the path and served as anthems of our childhood. While in some ways that’s pretty sad and depressing, if you look at it optimistically, these songs were pretty fun until you heard them for the thousandth time. I will state thank goodness for the amazing alternative scene in the 90’s because if this is all we would have had, then who knows what would’ve been the result of the music scene in the 2000’s? The more that I think about it, sadly, it would’ve been even more over produced pop like it is now! 

Richard Linklater: Hollywood’s Most Underrated Director

By Collin Lotter

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Credit to Getty Images

A confession from me before we jump into the article about the greatness of Richard Linklater; This article is probably two years to late to write from a perception angle about this director. After the release of the best picture nominated drama Boyhood, the cat was out of the bag and people knew immediately that this Texas based film-maker was something special. He finally had a place in Hollywood’s award season and achieved something remarkable winning best director and best picture at the 72nd annual Golden Globes, something that was long overdue. However, I still feel compelled to write how amazing Linklater’s films are and why I truly believe the uniqueness of time placement settings and relatable characters makes his movies unforgettable each time you experience them for the first time.

This occurred personally for me once again after driving down to Austin (Linklater’s home town) to see his newest movie Everybody Wants Some!!. It was a big deal for me as I haven’t had many movie incentive road trips in my life, but I knew this was the perfect time to execute one after hearing the news that the movie was only in limited release. Admittedly I was still buzzing after Linklater’s last few years of movies, I mean what a run for him just in the last five years alone. We have had the conclusion (rumored) to the “Before Trilogy” with Before Midnight starring Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy. He has given us the greatness of Bernie, which produced arguably Jack Black’s finest performance yet.

Finally two years ago, he struck gold with Boyhood, a methodical twelve year odyssey watching a unknown actor Ellar Coltrane grow from boy to man from the ages of 6 – 18. Boyhood rocked the cinematic landscape from a mesmerizing and curiosity direction with viewers who had never been exposed to movie that had such commitment to present a real time lapse in such a familiar way it was relatable to each and every person. Critics were buzzing about it with a near perfect rating on websites such as Rotten Tomatoes; fans were raving about it as word of mouth took over and a movie that almost wasn't made became a box office grossing success story. The questions were asked by many from all over.. “How did a director even think of presenting a movie like this?” “How did he get actors and production studios to buy into this concept with no payoff for 12 years?” Linklater was instantly a hit with people wanting more answers and more films. However, for people around Texas and his most adoring fans, we could’ve told you, he has been this way for years and it only seems to get better.

The crowd walking out of Everybody Wants Some!! was high fiving and chatting it up about how the maestro of slice of life movies was at his best again. Everybody Wants Some!! seemed like a failed proposition at its core, to try to live up to the being a loosely based sequel to Dazed and Confused, which is perhaps grew Linklater’s biggest cult following. You could already hear the negative feedback.. “Don’t try to follow this classic up!” “There will never be another “Dazed” and Wooderson character!” Wooderson being the iconic character portrayed by Matthew McConaughey launching him into super stardom. However with an director such as Linklater who is so applied to his craft, these pessimistic probably only fueled him more to create the project. 

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The movie is once again just a phenomenal film that plays on the simplistic traits of nostalgia, time and place, and most of unique relationships. Of course these characteristics are all intertwined in his films that are surrounded with catchy dialogue, banter humor, and a wonderful time period soundtrack to help; but Everybody Wants Some!! nails the formula to a T.  Blake Jenner plays a stud high school baseball pitcher who is entering his first college weekend as a wide-eyed freshman living at the baseball houses with the elder statesmen teammates. Quickly brotherhood friendships are formed, initiation hazing is featured, and the usual male college driven debauchery is derived all in one opening weekend. The acting ensemble is really strong with characters from all walks of life that are attending the SouthEast Texas University with the same goal of playing great baseball and partying. As with all of Linklater’s movies, the setting definitely plays a role in the actors dialogue and tendencies, however at the same time the story could be told in any fictional college town making it familiar to the audiences. Half way into the movie we get a little break for the fraternity feel of the movie and a love story is introduced with Jenner and Zooey Deutch, who plays a drama major student looking to draw more out of life than the ordinary college shenanigans. The two have a fun, organic romance that brings a touch of humanity to the film and a nice back and fourth for the second half of the movie.

Audiences will be sure to love this movie if they given Linklater a chance before and know what they are getting into. For myself, I never question his passion projects because you know it will deliver. Very few movie directors have the ability to make insightful films that seem any of us could encounter on our daily journeys. His movies albeit ambitious, rarely seem out of touch or over are heads and they put us in a place or time that is fun to dwell back on or allow us to be nostalgic for a few hours.   Do I think Richard Linklater could stand to get more attention in the pantheon of great filmmakers in this current generation?..... Without a Doubt! However, am I glad that Hollywood and audiences all over the world are finally starting to take notice and give the guy his due for his amazing filmography?.... 100 percent and It’s about Time!

The REEL Housewives Recap

By Callan Farris

Now that the latest season of the Bachelor has ended (Blauren is still going strong), I highly suggest programming your DVRs to record Bravo trash and Bravo trash only because you are not going to want to miss a single second of the RHO-Everywhere train wreck. As all of my fellow Housewives-aholics know, we are smack dab in the middle of this Bravo franchise’s take over of our televisions, but if you are one of the select few that have somehow managed to escape this Housewives invasion - read on!

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RHO-Beverly Hills
Status: Reunion

I never want to hear the name Munchausen again. EVER. If Yolanda Hadid (RIP Yolanda “Foster”) wasn’t sick this season then there wouldn’t have been a season. It seemed there was not a single scene that these Hollywood ladies were not gossiping about the former super model’s (and mother to famed super models Gigi and Bella Hadid) battle with Lyme disease, or lack thereof. The only pause we got from this tired topic was the breath of fresh air newcomer Erika Jayne (aka Erika Girardi, famously married to the recent headline grabber Tom Girardi) who is a no-nonsense provocative pop performer that doesn’t have time for the other ladies’ catty bullsh*t. “I’m an enigma wrapped in a riddle and cash” was Mrs. Girardi’s introductory tagline this season, and truer words were never spoken. This eight-time number one singles star (and self-proclaimed lover of the C-word) showed up reeking of money and confidence in every scene and quickly cemented herself as the new head bitch in charge. Other than “Sicky” (Yolanda) and “C*nty” (Erika) it was per ushe for the Beverly Hills old-timers. Kyle was weepy and dramatic, Lisa Rinna was the token sh*t-stirrer, Eileen was equal parts sensitive and blah, Lisa Vanderpump was the master manipulator (that I personally still adore), and the other newcomer, Kathryn Edwards, was just evil enough to solidify her spot on the cast next season. I am giddy with anticipation to see how much drama unfolds at the upcoming RHOBH three-part reunion. Drink every time you hear Munchausen’s. You are sure to be as wasted as Kim Richards was last season (too soon?)

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RHO-Atlanta
Status: Hiatus

I didn’t think it could get any better than the famed “fix your face; fix your body” duel between Sheree Whitfield and NeNe Leakes but when Kim Fields and Kenya Moore got into it at this season’s RHOA reunion my mind was quickly changed. Quick rundown: Child star, “Tootie”, Kim Fields is at the “grown folks table” and the self-titled “K-eyonce” (who isn’t at the grown folks table according to Mrs. Fields) get into it about who is the better producer/director the entire season and the outcome is an explosive head-to-head reunion couch debate that ends in the best GIF in Real Housewives history.

If that’s all we got out of this Atlanta season it would be enough but fortunately for us the drama between these Georgia peaches started long before.

Season highlights: infamous drunken Peter (husband of Housewives veteran Cynthia Bailey) “cheating” video emerges on the Internet and is passed around more than the ladies pass out “tea” (Urban Dictionary that word if you want to keep up with these ladies), Cynthia gets her kung fu panda on, Porsha gets kicked, Kenya has a new (and very much younger) man, Kandi and Todd welcome their much anticipated baby boy Ace, Phaedra and sons finally make their long-awaited prison appearance, and most importantly NENE IS BACK! All in all, well done Atlanta. You’ve once again taught me some very valuable life lessons, especially how to properly use the word “THOT” in my every day conversations (again, urban dictionary).

RHO-Potomac
Status: Irrelevant

Why this status? Because I think we’ve seen the last of the Potomac ladies. If you aren’t a fan of biracial debates that stretch over 8 long episodes then you won’t be a fan of this DC suburbs Housewives debut. White, black, mixed - who cares?  They won’t be back.

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RHO-Dallas
Status: Premiered

As a fellow Dallas-ite and proclaimed lover (ok, obsessor) of the Real Housewives, I couldn’t have been more excited for the premiere of this new edition in my own back yard. I honestly think I screamed in delight when I heard the Bravo cameras were coming to town. I started my “Dallas Housewives” group chat, prepared my snap chat to catch any memorable one-liners, nestled into my couch with remote in hand and pressed play with as much joy running through my body as when my first child was born. But by the first commercial, reality set in. It’s horrible.  Actually, “horrible” is too nice of a word; it’s downright embarrassing. The cast is made up of what I can only presume Bravo wants to be perceived as the crème de la crème of Dallas socialites but Stephanie Hollman, Cary Deuber, Brandi Redmond, Tiffany Hendra and LeeAnne Locken collectively dished out a big Texas helping of hot mess. Farting on command, unflattering impersonations of charity leaders, poop jokes, and countless awkward laughter in front of the cameras were just a few of the cringe-worthy moments during Monday night’s premiere. These are the women Andy Cohen chose to represent the Lone Star State?  Halfway through the show LeeAnne, who describes herself as “loud and aggressive”, even said “it’s getting real Plano up in here” and it wasn’t meant as a compliment. Last time I checked Plano wasn’t exactly the slums, ladies (and how dare you insult the home of Whiskey Cake!) Each episode will no doubt be fueled with “Jesus Juice” (wine) but I don’t think any amount of booze is going to help get me through this season. I am hopeful, but it aint lookin good y’all.

Till next time! Callan

The X- Files Season 10 Review …. We Were Warned!

By Collin Lotter & Tyler Foster

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The promotion was heavy and frequent on the primary Fox network and as a kid who grew up in the nineties… I was all in. That's right, when we first heard that Fox was bringing back the X –Files with all the major players from the original series, we all said “sign me up.”  And Fox was counting on this, with a reported 20 million spent on promotion for the month leading in to the tenth season premiere mainly tied around the highly rated NFL playoffs. Many fans can’t tell you how it ended or why it was continuing, but unlike most television installments, there has always been mega intrigue around the X Files cases and characters over the past 20 years.  Over its 10-season, two-movie run, there have been almost as many X-Files “endings” as there have been twists. The last few seasons, never sure of the show’s future, proposed a few different ways to send Mulder and Scully into the sunset. Scully was announced pregnant a few seasons back, just around the same time Mulder was abducted.. The next season Mulder and Scully shared an intimate moment to potentially answer the inevitable will they / won't they teased romance throughout the episodes. The second movie in 2008 left somewhat of a concrete ending showing Scully and Mulder on vacation seemingly at peace and the fans with some finality… however we all knew these questions would again be resolved.

Part of the major intrigue for myself as a viewer in the six-episode rebirth was to be able to see new episodes from an introspective thirty-year-old point of view rather than a young kid trying to be scared for the night and fulfilling realism to my own imagination. Seeing it from the perspective of the same age that Mulder and Scully were when they began the show was a draw to a lot of the post millennial demographic to give this show another chance and while the show had some highs and the main characters seem to age extremely gracefully, it was safe to say from critics and hardcore fans response that the show did not in its newest rendition. On the surface, you can conclude that Fox viewed the mini series/tenth season as a major hit compared to their other original programming. Ratings were solid and there looked to be a healthy amount of social media buzz for X Files all together. This was definitely evident initially with a huge premiere audience of 17.8 million fans tuning in, but this wouldn't last for the series finale with viewership dipping to a disappointing 6.9 million fans. Also feedback ran rampant on all social platforms/message boards that the finale felt hollow and unfulfilling for such a rabid fan base starting out. But based on the overall response, the harsh truth in here is that it’s as if creator Chris Carter and his collaborators have forgotten what people liked about the show.

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This season starts out with Fox Mulder and Dana Scully back on the hunt (initially with Mulder leading his own one man investigation) after receiving new information, and a mysterious woman might be the victim of an alien abduction close by. Mulder starts questioning what he originally solved in past cases and goes into full rogue/detective mode throughout the first episode. Along the way they meet, Tad O’ Malley (Joel McHale), a Web-TV Blowhard who individually believes he has stumbled upon the most evil ,trust nobody conspiracy that undermines the first nine seasons and two movies. Mulder is initially extremely captivated and wants to dig deeper (much to the dismay of Scully). Seeing the great Mitch Pileggi appear as Walter Skinner was a nice surprise to the premiere two episode – two night event and the back and forth between David Duchovny and Gillian Anderson still had charm. However, as a viewer it became extremely clear that 13 years later the stories and characters don't have the same energy.

The middle of the season had chunks of excitement with some great comedic moments and guest stars like Rhys Darby(Flight of the Conchords) who plays a New Zealander that is neither a guy, nor a man., He is a lizard. The third episode is powered by his appearance and brings some light-hearted humor to a dull opening two episodes for anticipating fans. Darby was so good in this role as he narrates his whole transformation from a wishful point of view of the luxuries that humans have over reptiles. The interaction with him seems to reinvigorate Mulder who has a keen trait to believe the unbelievable..

The good vibes don't last long entering the fourth episode as Scully receives a phone call from her brother informing her of the news that her mother has entered a coma and she must rush to the hospital to see her immediately. Scully who is also dealing with the issue of whether giving her son William up for adoption was ultimately the right choice, seems torn apart throughout the episode, leaving Mulder to sit by her side as well as keep solving the clues to the latest case. The amazing thing about this episode is the amount of awkward tension between Mulder and Scully.lots of uncomfortable touching and consoling as well as unnatural romance leaving viewers a little perplexed who have always concluded the two were naturally made for each other.

The last two episodes were arguably the two most misguided in the series’ history, which is discouraging considering they were the two final go home epilogues to the series for fans. The fifth episode titled “Babylon” begins with a man praying with ominous undertones playing in the background. This character then proceeds to blow up an art gallery in rural Texas. This scene erringly similar to the Oklahoma City bombing scene in the first X-Files movie…There Mulder and Scully meet two young recruits who are assigned to this Texas devastation. Lots of one ups between the young ambitious recruits and the savvy veterans transcend from conflict to partnership and it results in capturing the villain who bombed the gallery.  The series finale, which was heavily promoted by Fox to have a scintillating cliffhanger that would leave us talking for months… (As a concurring theme to whole show’s revival),. the cliffhanger wasn't that surprising and left us empty.  Scully protected from a global biological attack by her alien DNA, can only hope to save Mulder with the stem cells of their son William, whom she gave up for adoption 14 years ago. That might have been a twist if not for the fact that Scully’s maternal guilt had been the season’s most consistent thread. As for the episode’s final minute — a spaceship sets its beam on Scully as the show ends with iconic imagery and best scenes in its entirety.

Perhaps it was the condescending, older, bitter person in me that didn't allow myself to have as much fun with this six-episode fest as I should. However, as previously stated the whole show left a void incomplete compared to years past. It lacked energy, creativity and a startling finale to keep me

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The Cultural Anomaly: How Lecrae is Seeking to Merge Two Cultures

By Daniel Fox

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Confession… As a Christian growing up, I never found myself gravitating towards today’s Christian music.  Through varying conversations with other people, it feels like I’m not alone in this.  Is there anything functionally wrong with most of the Christian music today?  Not necessarily, but when you’ve been introduced the varying degrees of musical genius that can be found in the likes of the Stones, Zeppelin, U2, Nirvana, and others, most other music can seem rather bland.  Most times when I turn on the Christian radio station, I am unable to differentiate between the artists, other than if they are male or female.  Everything seems to have the same melody with the same straightforward, uplifting lyrics.  But hey, to each his own, and there is definitely a market for that style and plenty of people who prefer that music to anything else on the radio and that’s ok.  However, for me, I felt it hard to enjoy and would often feel guilty that I didn’t necessarily like the “good, Christian music” and preferred music the Church would deem as “wrong, or secular.”  Remember when the Youth Pastor or special guest-speaker would ask you to throw away your “secular” CD’s?  Yea that wasn’t very fun, and I’m sorry Mr. Youth Pastor, but my CD of “Siamese Dream” was going nowhere near a trashcan.

I’m not necessarily a big Rap fan, so when I found myself in the middle of a rap concert in the summer of 2004 I was pretty uninterested.  But then this artist starting raping lyrics that contained the words “crunk” and “eschatology” in the same song.  Huh?  Excuse me?  “Crunk” a very secular word coined by the Three 6 Mafia, and “eschatology” a very Christian word meaning the theological studying of the end times… used in the same song.  Needless to say the artist peaked my interest and has ever since.  That artist was Lecrae.

Today, 12 years later, Lecrae is very much at the forefront of a revolution that is seeking to merge the Christian and secular musical cultures.  He currently has over a million followers on Twitter, and hangs out with the likes of Steph Curry and Kendrick Lamar.  Yet still publically shares his Christian faith both in his music and in the real world.  This couldn’t work if Lecrae was an average musician, but it does because he is an extraordinary rapper, writer, and producer.  The freshness of his beats at times can seem like a combination of multiple generations with hints of Tupac, Outkast, and Kendrick Lamar all present on the same album or even the same song.  His best work being 2014’s Anomaly, the first Christian album ever to debut at #1 on the Gospel Albums chart and Billboard 200, and only the fifth Christian artist ever, only the third in almost 20 years, to debut at #1 on the Billboard 200. 

Lecrae is an artist standing in the middle of two cultures that majorities of people desire to be separate, but that he desires to be an integral part of each other.  Lecrae said in a 2014 article from Billboard.com, “I didn't really fit in either world.  But it's telling to the gospel industry that there are people who crave a sound that is not traditional. To the mainstream industry, there's a voice of faith from all walks of life."  Of course this creates natural detractors from both sides, the mainstream industry that would prefer faith based music to be kept in its own niche, only occasionally appearing such as when Kanye West released “Jesus Walks.”  A good song that was accepted by the mainstream, but after which Kanye has followed with traditional rap lyrics… and general craziness.  Likewise, most churches today are teaching that Christian culture should be separate from secular culture.  Believing that Lecrae shouldn’t be in the mainstream and strictly stick to what Christian artists have been doing forever.  So there Lecrae sits alone, an artist between worlds, half Jay-Z, half John Piper.  Doing what he loves to the best of his abilities, creating great music for both cultures yet in spite of each culture at the same time.  He certainly is quite the anomaly.

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Cameron Crowe's Elizabethtown

By Michael Clayton Copeland

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Last night I revisited Cameron Crowe’s “Elizabethtown.” A visit I make yearly. I refuse to give up on it. I know this man’s intentions, and I know the greatness he possesses. And “Elizabethtown” has so much greatness. There are many moments in the film that make you wince, but the “winciest” of winces comes from missed-opportunities and wasted gold.

Orlando Bloom was the first mistake. Apparently, Cameron pushed for him, too. I’d like to believe that Cameron realized his mistake during production, and that time and money was what kept him from stopping production and re-casting, but the guy cannot act. The film rests on his shoulders, and the guy just cannot act. Granted, the script by Cameron didn’t always help either, as he chose to both rush and shift emotional arcs several times throughout the story. The two best examples of poor acting meeting poor writing, for me, are when Bloom’s character is sitting at the kitchen table with various members of the family and decides to stand up to them for the first time about cremation and not being from California, and the scene with Kirsten Dunst in the banquet hall where he confesses his love for her. Both of these scenes call for big outbursts that make no sense coming out of Bloom’s character’s mouth. We have been lead to believe that he is quietly dealing with the loss of his Father and the “fiasco” of his career, so to hear him give grandiose speeches that profess his frustrations and love are incredibly misplaced and unbelievable. He comes off as bi-polar; incredibly tormented — and it makes zero sense. And no matter how great the music is, no matter how great the cinematography by John Toll is, it cannot save most viewers from pulling out of the story.

And we cannot ignore the lack of focus. Cameron has a four hour film here that was condensed to two, and it’s incredibly obvious. Whether it’s the cousin Jessie storyline involving his relationship with his son and his own Father, or it’s Susan Sarandon and Judy Greer’s storyline as Orlando Bloom’s Mother and Sister dealing with the loss of the family Patriarch, “Elizabethtown” suffers from too much juggling. We never have time to care about anyone.

There are other distractions like Kirsten Dunst’s southern accent mysteriously disappearing and re-appearing throughout the film, but I still find my way back to this movie year after year.

Why?

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I mentioned the music and cinematography earlier, and these are both key components. Tom Petty and Elton John are heard throughout with perfect marriages to the beautifully-shot imagery on screen, and it should be of no surprise. This is Cameron’s strength. But even more so than this, there are brilliantly written and well-crafted sequences in “Elizabethtown” that have the makings of another Cameron Crowe masterpiece. That is why the film is so frustrating for me.

Whether it’s the opening scene with the truck full of recalled shoes backing up to the loading dock intercut with the Bloom character’s long and reflective journey to his boss’s office, or the tap-dance sequence with Susan Sarandon, the movie has a lot of strength. I also loved the recurring “secret connoisseur of last looks” thread that takes us through the entire story. And the final road trip scene. And Alec Baldwin’s character. And the flashback sequences. And the “Free Bird” performance under the sprinklers.

But, the final cut was the final cut. What we saw is what we saw. It’s a shame that Cameron Crowe’s immense talent wasn’t fully realized in this one. “Potential” is the strongest word you can use to sum up this effort. But the film is still very much worthy of your time. When we look back over this man’s career, much can be taken from “Elizabethtown” to include in the highlight reel. His love of music and its importance is on display here, arguably second only to “Almost Famous.” And that passion is intoxicating, and contagious. He gives his characters great poetry, and while there is plenty of bad execution of said poetry to point to in his career, you can’t deny his love for his characters and humanity at that. He’s a tremendous songwriter in my opinion, and in the case of “Elizabethtown,” it just might be his first album where you’re allowed to skip a track or two.

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Movies with Emotional Baggage

By Donna Arp Weitzman

For many of us, emotional baggage can build from a very early age, and it's important to release that baggage as we enter new relationships. Crazy, dysfunctional prior relationships can weigh heavily on your psyche, and wear you down mentally, physically, and emotionally.

Everyone has emotional baggage and on its own, it's not necessarily a bad thing.  The problem is not that you may have it, but what you choose to do with it. Do you keep your emotions locked in a closet? Not good.  Do you carry it around until your body aches? Also not good.

 Fortunately for us moviegoers, we always have great films and actors to help us relate on how they handle their personal emotional baggage and the stories they tell. Movies display the problems that we are trying to decipher and give us a direct or indirect road map on how we can combat and build off them.

Here are seven instrumental films in the last 20 years (don’t want to veer to much into the past as the current romantic climate has changed considerably since the internet) relatable to every generation on dealing with the ever-perplexing issue of emotional baggage.

 1.  You’ve Got Mail, 1998. Director Nora Ephron, Starring Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan. The quintessential tech-based romantic comedy that features rivals away from the computer screen, characters Joe and Kathleen (Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan) unknowingly fall in love with each other via an email relationship and humorously deal with a number of common online dating issues. The story, a modernized little "remake" of "The Shop Around The Corner", is more fairy tale than realism -- two people fall in love over email, in war in real life, and however can such a thing be solved -- but it's an enchanting story nonetheless.

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2.  Notting Hill, 1999. Director Roger Mitchell, Starring Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant. This is the best romanic comedy in 1999, in my opinion. It's a story about an actress (Anna Scott played by Julia Roberts) at the height of her career finding the ordinary man (William Thacker played by Hugh Grant) in Notting Hill (an actual place in the UK) and falling in love with him. The unlikely story of travel bookstore owner getting involved with a mega-star actress is a fantasy but then it's a movie... and their story is fun to watch. Their quirky romance struggles a bit while they try to find a common ground for the couple from opposite ends of the spectrum- and the movie tries to convey that even famous actresses have normal needs, too.

 3.  Silver Linings Playbook, 2012. Director David O Russell, Starring Bradley Cooper and Jennifer Lawerence. Cooper plays a man being released from institutionalized care after a violent episode got him into trouble. Having lost his job and his wife, he is taken in by his parents who must contend with his bipolar condition. Cooper is single-minded in his pursuit to get back together with his wife, to the point of obsession. When he meets an odd young widow (Lawrence) dealing with plenty of personal demons, the two seem like they've got a lot in common. Of course, they seem perfect for each other but Cooper remains oblivious for most of the movie. The ending is perfectly timed out though with the synchronicity of both oddball personalities finally meeting each others match. 

4.  500 Days of Summer, 2009. Director Marc Webb, Starring Zoey Deschanel and Joesph Gordon Levitt. “This is a story of boy meets girl. But you should known in advance, this is not a love story,” intones the voiceover at the start of this bittersweet romantic comedy. Tom (Gordon-Levitt) grew up believing in fate bringing soul mates together whereas Summer (Deschanel) grew up not believing in much of anything, least of all lasting relationships. On the other hand, there's the duality between what one would like to happen and what actually does happen; we often go through life with expectations, even though we know deep down that most will never be met. Tom is in a tug-of-war between his romantic fantasies and the reality that Summer doesn't believe in true love.

5.  High Fidelity, 2000. Director Stephen Frears, Starring John Cusack and Catherine Zeta – Jones. Cusack plays a relatable guys kind of guy who owns a record store and is plagued by the unique flaws of each ex girlfriend. The movie is littered with inner dialogue with Rob’s (Cusack) past experiences and terrible luck with keeping stable relationships. However, as the movie evolves and Cusack’s character matures he realizes the right type of woman for his eclectic personality and oddball personality filled with self-actualized humor and an appreciation in music.

 6.  Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 2004. Director Michel Gondry, Starring Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet. Focused on two sadden love stories in unique perspectives all four main characters dealing with their own shortcomings. Clementine(Winslet) is a tragic woman who is constantly searching for the right soulmate that may appear in glimpses but always keeps her wondering. Her counterpart Joel(Carrey) is a quirky, soft-spoken introvert who struggles with his own confidence and observations. After learning of a operation that his girlfriend has had to remove him from her memory, Joel decides to copy the same procedure, although both in retrospect realize the emotional baggage and past they have with each other is better not forgotten. 

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7.  Sideways, 2004. Director Alexander Payne, Starring Paul Giamatti and Thomas Haden Church. Payne masterfully displays how emotional baggage can translate through friendship in this film as much as it can play out in the romantic arena as well. The main character Miles (Giamatti) plays a self-aware novelist who consistently over analyses his previous marriage. This results in daily bitterness of the idea of the love and the daunting process it takes on a person. But in a refreshing albeit abrasive manner, Miles friend Jack (Haden Church) brings a sense of humor and ignorant point of view to counter balance each other. Both dealing with past and current relationships, plan an escape trip to wine country; which in turn only winds up being a harsh dose of reality and the failure of not dealing with it head on. This movie feeds on emotion, Giamatti’s character doing it in a quiet self-analyzing way and Haden Church’s path more outspokenly wrapped around action driven mistakes.

 There are plenty more great examples in the archives of film to show how our favorite story – tellers deal with the encompassing emotional baggage that we all try to take on. But these 7 can bring great examples with laughs, tears and hopes surrounded by unique settings in cinema.